If you have a loved one that has passed away what would you ask them? Who would you talk to again?
For myself its easy to answer- it will always be my dad. I wish I could have him back even if just for an hour.
I’d ask if I’ve made him proud. If he is happy with me for the choices I’ve made.
I’d ask that he “sing” Gold Digger again because that’s always in my mind. I’d ask if he think my oldest son looks like him, because he does. I’d ask what he favorite memory of us would be, and what he felt like his greatest accomplishment was.
I’d ask if he felt pain because that’s my worry- that he felt pain when he died. I’d hear him call me “bug” one last time and say I love you. These are my questions , what would you ask? Family history questions? Personal?